Unloading some reflex

"I want to live . . . to experience the blessing of agedness," an African teenager said, whose parents passed away because of AIDS. Many in his city are unable to reach middle age. Probably even more children die because of the disease.

Can anyone in his lifetime not feel, for a brief moment, the deep sense of shame by doing nothing as his very own kind is dying slowly helplessly in front of him?

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"She is at a much higher level," an once renowned actor in the 70s talked about his ex-wife, showing uneasiness.

Can a lasting marriage exist without an intellectual match?
Modern "love" is initialized by feeling. What are the other possible forms? Calculated match?
I guess when people say "I love you," they mean "I love the now you."
Mathematically: People (time) & Love (time)
By 6th sense I guess
God = constant
may help somehow "stablize" people and love as function of time on relationship context.

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The difference of people lies in:

perceived self, which is a function of
use of language
appearance
body language
emotions
known information

projected self, which is a function of
perceived perceived self
self-confidence
experience
unclassified stimuli